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Book Review: Holy Discontent

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I saw this book on someone’s desk a while ago. The title was provocative so I really wanted to check it out. I finally got around to reading it. This isn’t the best book I’ve read by Hybels, but the content supported the premise. Here’s an overview and some highlights.

The premise of Holy Discontent is that in the lives of people who are investing joyfully of their time, their money, and their energies into something [a passion], they can always link it back to a single spark of frustration that fueled what is now a raging fire in their souls. And that this attraction to a specific cause or purpose is irresistible. One example Hybels uses is the example of Moses and the frustration he felt over the captivity of the Israelites in Egypt. Here are some of the highlights:

-       I believe the motivating reason why millions of people choose to do good in the world around them is because there is something wrong in that world. In fact, there is something so wrong that they just can’t stand it.

-       I’ve come to refer to the powerful, spiritual congruence that connected Moses’ priorities to the priorities of God as his “holy discontent,”

-       Still today, what wrecks the heart of someone who loves God is often the very thing God wants to use to fire them up to do something that, under normal circumstances, they would never attempt to do.

-       The most inspired, motivated, and driven people I know are the ones who live their lives from the energy of their holy discontent.

-       Your ability to detect and then act on that which makes you discontent can actually catalyze freedom-based living in the hearts of your friends and family members!

-       Martin Luther King Jr. became famous because of what he couldn’t stand.

-       I think you know the question I have for you. What can’t you stand?

-       A bad day lived from the energy of your holy discontent is far better than the best day lived anywhere else.

-       Figure out what you can’t stand. Channel your holy discontent energy into helping to fix what’s broken in this life.

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Relational Priorities

I have this list of people that I’d love changed-prioritiesto meet and talk to someday. My list of these people is long and ever-changing, but I’ve gotten a chance to meet some of the people on my list over the years. Mostly these meetings always come up when I’ve least expected it. And usually, because I’m not expecting these meetings to happen, I don’t really know what to say. Now I keep a list of 20-30 questions on me that I’d like to ask any of these people just in case I get the opportunity to meet them.

Recently, I had a chance to spend some time with one of these people and run through some of my list of questions. It was probably annoying to that person, but it was awesome for me. One of my questions is “what is the most important thing that every person who is new to doing what you do, need to know?” In this case, it was a pastor. Since our conversation was not based on the pretext of me writing about it later, I’m not going to name this person, but they deserve credit for this. So here’s the question exactly as I asked it, then his response (paraphrased and hopefully not butchered too badly by me).

Question: What should every new or young pastor know about being a pastor?

Answer: The importance of relational priorities. Everyone [in church circles] talks about the order of priorities in relationships: God first, wife and family second, church third, work fourth etc. But I don’t know how often we live it. The best way to evaluate the priority of your relationships is to see what roles you are dispensable in and where you are indispensable. We are indispensable as the husband to our wives and the father to our children. We are indispensable in our relationship with God because only we can be who He called us to be and only we can be the child that He asks us to be. We are completely replaceable in our jobs. There is always someone more skilled that could do a better job than we are doing at our work. We are replaceable in many of the activities where we invest our time. When our time begins to become consumed with the activities where we are dispensable it’s time to make some adjustments. Balance in life is important, but we could all stand to invest more time in our indispensable roles.

This was a great reminder of something I thought I knew, but I know I can get off track in this area. Good stuff!

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Book Review: Communicating For A Change

Communicating For A Change by Andy Stanley is the first book I completed on my Kindle 2. It’s a great book for anyone who spends any time in front of others speaking. It’s written from Andy’s perspective as a pastor, but a lot of the practical tips he’s shares translate to any speaking context. I enjoyed this book because it is practical, and Andy shares everything he does to prepare and deliver a message. If you’ve never heard Andy preach, he really is one of the greatest communicators I’ve ever heard. I love listening to his stuff. You can checkout his podcast on iTunes or at NorthPoint’s website.

If you decide to checkout this book (and you should for the sake of your audiences and your messages), it’s divided into 2 parts. The first part is a fictional narrative that tells a story of a pastor learning Andy’s principles from a gifted communicator. The first part was good, but the second half is way better. The entire book revolves around 7 Keys to Irresistable Communication and a relational outlining approach (ME-WE-GOD-YOU-WE) that Andy uses. (By the way, I listened to Andy to see if he followed his outline approach at Catalyst West. He nailed it.)

Here’s some highlights that I clipped via my Kindle 2:

- Every time I stand to communicate I want to take one simple truth and lodge it in the heart of the listener. I want them to know that one thing and know what to do with it

- Every sermon should take the audience somewhere

- Until you can deliver it with no notes, from memory, then it’s not your message.

- Until you can stand up and tell a story, you’re not ready to preach. You see, people connect with a story, and a story takes people on a journey

- Speaking from memory isn’t difficult to do if you’re telling a story. People make it difficult when they try to communicate points instead of telling a story. If you have four or five points you’re trying to drive home, then you get focused on not forgetting any of them.

- Have a one point message

- How can you expect your listener to care enough to remember what you’re saying when you can’t?

- At some point we’ve got to begin caring more for the people in the audience than the person on the platform. When we do, our presentations take on real significance. Until we do, communication is really all about us.

- Preaching for life change requires far less information and more application. Less explanation and more inspiration.

- If you decide to preach for life change you won’t be satisfied until the behavior of your audience is transformed; and you will be willing to do just about anything to see that transpire.
- You need a sticky statement.

- People ask me all the time how I preach without looking at notes. Now you know.

P.S. – This review took 5 minutes since the Kindle 2 already had my notes and excerpts organized.

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